Growers

  Are you smart ? Why some stupid people think they are smart ? Lets understand this through a short story Once there were 2 frogs in a well . One of them said to the other " let's go to the ocean . There is a lot of water as well as intresting fishes and crabs . We will make new friends and hang out together . It will be so fun ."   The other frog said " how much water would that be ? Will it be half of this well ?"  On this the first frog says , " oh no man , there is more water !"  The other says , " still how much water ? If you fill this well , that much ? What will be more that that ?" On this the first frog beats his head and leaves him there and goes away .  Is there any person in your life who considers himself to be more intelligent that necessary ? but in reality it is completely opposite . Usually we all overestimate our skills at some point or the other .  An American survey found that 88% of people think they are better than ave...

How to get out of your comfort zone Comfort  , the state of relaxation . Having everything that your body needs and living a pleasant life .  Living in the comfort zone is comfortable but do you know that there is no GROWTH in it . Living in comfort zone does not take much energy . Your comfort zone becomes a victim of carelessness and slowly gets destroyed . If you do not do any new work everyday then your comfort zone will become smaller . You'll forget the skills you learnt . Things you read will go off your mind .  Before learning how to get out of comfort zone know why do we want to live in the comfort zone naturally ?  Evolutionary psychologists cam help us understand this . Thousands years ago from now when we used to live in the forests . The comfort zone was the secret of our survival . If we stay in our caves which is close to the river we will be safe . We'll get water to drink and fish to eat . We would go to the place every evening looking for food and ...

 5 lessons to learn  from successful people  Everybody wants to be successful in a way or other . So today I am going to share 5 things about SUCCESSFUL person . Implement them in you and your life and see the changes . Here we go ..... 1) Have a great body language Your body plays a vital role in your words . It is visible to everyone everytime and sends different signs and messages to people . And you don't even get to know what messages your body is leaving to the person in front . That's it's vet important that you correct your body postures . Suppose you are saying somebody that , you trust them for this work , and you avoid eye contact and stand firmly by folding hands . This posture will show the opposite of what you are telling them . So it is very important that your body postures match your words . If you are meeting someone for the first time , smile and make an eye contact . Offer to shake hands but remember hand shake don't work in all cultures so do what ...

Things you should leave right now ! Hi there ! Back with another article and today going to share about 5 things that ruin you .  So let's begin.... 1 ) Toxic Friends These are the people who pretend to be your friend but turns out to be the one who poison your life . So it is very important that you identify such people and create a space between yourself .  There are four big traits of toxic people's - 1)  They always criticize you . They make you feel small . They don't leave any opportunity to make you feel embarrass .  2)   They always discourage you . They never talk about solution . All they do is just talk about problems .  3)  Their life is a living drama . If something bad has happened with them , then they will tell it in a big way . 4)  They always find excuses . They always want you to help them but they'll never help you back . I am not saying to cut the contacts with them completely but keep it limited ....

  How to identify fake friends  There must have been such a friend in your life who has betrayed you later . When you first met him , you must have found him very kind . Even at a point , you would have considered him / her your bestfriend . But then one fine day you got to know that he took advantage of you . He was just being nice to you for his / her purpose . Either he revealed all your secrets or he rat out you . You felt cheated / disheartened .  It is very difficult to identify such toxic person . Maybe the person being too nice to you turns to be the snake sleeves . And you won't know him / her until you are being cheated . And by the time you get to know he / she is the toxic person you will be in loss .  So in this article we'll know how many types of toxic people are there . And how can you recognise them in the early stages .  Though there are so many traits of toxic people but we can't talk about them in a single article , so...

 5 things successful people do E verybody wants to be successful in a way or other . So today I am going to share 5 things about SUCCESSFUL person . Implement them in you and your life and see the changes . Here we go ....... 1) Have a great body language Your body plays a vital role in your words . It is visible to everyone everytime and sends different signs and messages to people . And you don't even get to know what messages your body is leaving to the person in front . That's it's vet important that you correct your body postures . Suppose you are saying somebody that , you trust them for this work , and you avoid eye contact and stand firmly by folding hands . This posture will show the opposite of what you are telling them . So it is very important that your body postures match your words . If you are meeting someone for the first time , smile and make an eye contact . Offer to shake hands but remember hand shake don't work in all cultures so do what is preferab...

How to make people respect you Respect means that you accept somebody for who they are, even when they're different from you or you don't agree with them. Respect in your relationships builds feelings of trust , safety , and wellbeing . Respect doesn't have to come naturally , it is something you learn . Respect is not given , respect is earned . Some people have misunderstanding that just because they are at certain level of their work , status or society , so they must be respected , irrespective of their behaviour and doings . In such scenario people might respect you infront but deep down they'll have no respect . They'll talk rubbish about you behind your back .  Respect is not just limited to work , friends , elder or younger , it's much more than this .  Human recognition respect is the respect we give to our elders , status recognition respect is the one we give to someone who is above our status level and appraisal respect is when we praise someones qua...