Skip to main content

HOW TO MAKE PEOPLE RESPECT YOU ? LEARN IT , EARN IT

How to make people respect you

Respect means that you accept somebody for who they are, even when they're different from you or you don't agree with them. Respect in your relationships builds feelings of trust , safety , and wellbeing . Respect doesn't have to come naturally , it is something you learn . Respect is not given , respect is earned . Some people have misunderstanding that just because they are at certain level of their work , status or society , so they must be respected , irrespective of their behaviour and doings . In such scenario people might respect you infront but deep down they'll have no respect . They'll talk rubbish about you behind your back . 

Respect is not just limited to work , friends , elder or younger , it's much more than this . 

Human recognition respect is the respect we give to our elders , status recognition respect is the one we give to someone who is above our status level and appraisal respect is when we praise someones quality and respect for it . 

If you as a human earn people's respect then you are a beloved to everyone . 


So today I am going to tell you some ways of earning respect . 


Here we go


1) Be kind 


You should always be polite to your partner , friends , family or a stranger . It sounds really simple , right ? But it's very difficult when your day is not going so well . And that's completely normal . We all have all kind of days , happy , sad , best , worst but we can't let our emotions be the cause for other's disrespect .

You're reading this article because you want everyone to respect you , so the same way everyone wants you to respect them . 

Small loving gestures can make you earn a lot of respect like help those who can't cross the road , give a glass of water to the delivery man who comes to deliver at your door step .


Smiling & thanking is the best way to show your kindness and politeness . 


2) Act Respectfully


Don't behave disrespectful to anyone . Listen to the person talking , even if you don't agree to him . Don't ignore him/her and act as if they aren't present . Put yourself in the person shoe's . How would you feel ?

There's a quote " Give respect to get respect ." So in order to earn respect first you should respect others . It's not a one way traffic that the other  person should respect you only . No ! You too have to give the respect . 


3) Listen well


When someone is talking to you , listen actively . This will not only increase your respect in their eyes also this improves your communication skill . 

People often don't listen properly and keeps on adding their opinion and some people start telling their stories . Instead of speaking , try to ask questions that encourages them . When you listen well , you make them feel valuable and this increases your value too and you are respected .


4) Don't make excuses


Take responsibility of your actions . If you did something wrong unknowingly be responsible for it . Don't blame it to others .  Accept your mistakes . Instead of blaming or regretting about the mistake , try to move on and focus ahead . Commit to work better than befor . Society doesn't respect those who do not accept their mistake . So don't make excuses or blaming others instead grab opportunities to move ahead . 


So these were small behaviour changes that can make people respect you .


Happy Learnings 🙌 

Labels:

Comments

Post a Comment

Must Reads !

6 Brain hacks to Remember Things

6 Brain Hacks to Remember Things Brain is the complex organ of our body . It grows over time and starts losing memory .  When we were kids we remember things more easily and for the long time . There are lot of researches which tell us that the brain of children of age group 0-5 make connections or synapses at the earliest . The connection among brain neurons is called the  synapses . Kids brain overloaded with curiosity is called beginner’s brain by scientists . But why our memory curiosity reduces with time . Just fulfilling the needs of the life we don’t even realize when we start forgetting little things . Daily tasks , location of items at home , remembering these things seems tough to us . By the way after a certain age , reduction in memory is a normal physiological process . But in today's world , full of stress , distraction and unhealthy food & lifestyle many people have started facing memory problem before the time . Lack of concentration and ...
Post a Comment
Read more

4 Ways to learn any language effectively

IF you want to master any language not in terms of knowing the language but speaking the language that requires a very different methodology and a very different process . And it is not necessary that only if you went to an English school or korean school you will know how to speak . If you are trying to be a bilingual you must know these tips to adapt that language so easily . I myself followed them and now i can speak so confidently. These tips are so effective and will help you definitely  So here we go...... Number 1 is READING You know what when you read you are actively participating. You are putting your efforts to learn that language . And when you read you come across new words and new sentences. You learn how to form sentences which is the basic of every language and this will ultimately help you in speaking .  Number 2  is  WRITING  Second thing is WRITING using pen and paper . In this digital world people tend to write very less because e...
Post a Comment
Read more

4 ways to build healthy habits

You know what our brain works in a way to spend least amount of energy in doing any work . That's what the brain loves to do . So if you can get yourself to spend the least amount of energy in doing that work then your mind won't interpret you in doing so .  Now the question arises how to do so . How to make your brain spend less energy and form a habit . Back in the days of childhood when you were learning from your environment everything was new to you . You learned walking , eating , brushing the teeths , waking early and what not . All these things took time and efforts. There is a first day of every habit like swimming,  cycling, dancing etc. , and in the initial days you want to quit these activities because it take efforts and brain does not like to put soo much effort. With consistency and hard work activities one day becomes your habit. So here are the top 4 ways which will help you to form healthy habits . And yes healthy habits do take time and eff...
Post a Comment
Read more